well, i'm not good with words but i'll try to say what i want without compromising winy's feelings.... ok here it goes...
first of all, i'm really glad you told us about this.. cuz no matter what happens, i believe everyone of us wants to know about it and whether or not we are able to help, we want to be there... so just know that we are always here if you need someone to talk to, etc. call us anytime you want or you can give us your number..we can call you too.... ^^
secondly, i would say to give you and him a break.. i mean you guys need some time to cool off.. and i think maybe you guys should really talk it out... problems if left unsolved would only snowball into something bigger.. i know i'm probably not in any position to give any comments but this is just my views so..ya... anyway, this is what happens between my 2nd bro and his girlfriend.. their quarrels and problems are always solved before the day's over... so maybe problems should be solved as quickly as possible... and solving problems help each other to understand their partner better... so that's what i think...
thirdly, after i just finished reading your new post, i think his over dependence on you is maybe taking a toil on you.. so you feel this extra burden or something.. and you feel tired.. this is my own analysis so ya.. and i dun think you should agree to patching things up so soon or because he cried and stuff cuz that's not love but pity... i'm sure you dun want the relationship to be built on pity?? and i guess even if you take him the reasons now, he won't understand and even if he changed, he's no longer who he is, isn't it?? i dunno but that's what i think and i think you have to make your own choice and let our opinions just serve as something like an aid or something...
fourth, don't feel bad about it.. although i believe saying this doesn't have much help cuz in the end you still feel bad... haha.. so just dun bottle up your feelings and write wadever you wanna write, say wadever you wanna say... scream even if you want to.. haha.. but i dun think the situation is this bad... so wadever it is: we are here for you^^
last but not least, this is your life.. you are the master.. wadever decisions you make, it is never wrong cuz you'll always learn something from it... somehow, after i wrote this, i have no idea wad i'm writing.. lol.. guess i'm a bit loss now too.. haha... guess that's all for now.. if there's anything, we are just a call away...
wanshi....
we'll here for you....
Names: [[Su Peng]] [[Xin Yi]] [[Wan Shi]] [[Winy]]
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well, i'm not good with words but i'll try to say what i want without compromising winy's feelings.... ok here it goes...
first of all, i'm really glad you told us about this.. cuz no matter what happens, i believe everyone of us wants to know about it and whether or not we are able to help, we want to be there... so just know that we are always here if you need someone to talk to, etc. call us anytime you want or you can give us your number..we can call you too.... ^^
secondly, i would say to give you and him a break.. i mean you guys need some time to cool off.. and i think maybe you guys should really talk it out... problems if left unsolved would only snowball into something bigger.. i know i'm probably not in any position to give any comments but this is just my views so..ya... anyway, this is what happens between my 2nd bro and his girlfriend.. their quarrels and problems are always solved before the day's over... so maybe problems should be solved as quickly as possible... and solving problems help each other to understand their partner better... so that's what i think...
thirdly, after i just finished reading your new post, i think his over dependence on you is maybe taking a toil on you.. so you feel this extra burden or something.. and you feel tired.. this is my own analysis so ya.. and i dun think you should agree to patching things up so soon or because he cried and stuff cuz that's not love but pity... i'm sure you dun want the relationship to be built on pity?? and i guess even if you take him the reasons now, he won't understand and even if he changed, he's no longer who he is, isn't it?? i dunno but that's what i think and i think you have to make your own choice and let our opinions just serve as something like an aid or something...
fourth, don't feel bad about it.. although i believe saying this doesn't have much help cuz in the end you still feel bad... haha.. so just dun bottle up your feelings and write wadever you wanna write, say wadever you wanna say... scream even if you want to.. haha.. but i dun think the situation is this bad... so wadever it is: we are here for you^^
last but not least, this is your life.. you are the master.. wadever decisions you make, it is never wrong cuz you'll always learn something from it... somehow, after i wrote this, i have no idea wad i'm writing.. lol.. guess i'm a bit loss now too.. haha... guess that's all for now.. if there's anything, we are just a call away...
wanshi....
we'll here for you....